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Re: Black Hole

Posted: Sun Oct 04, 2020 2:02 pm
by ladyjubilee
I completely understand how you feel. Buttons was my special dog. From the moment she spotted me at the shelter, I was her person. When she died, I had that hole in my heart and searched and searched for another Dalmatian. After months, 3 trips to another state.....one of which could have seen me arrested for kidnapping....and much drama finally brought Gotcha (hence the name). But I kind of failed Gotcha. She wasn't Buttons. Were Buttons viewed me as the best thing in the world, Gotcha was a dog's dog. She and Snuggles bonded to the point he only lived about a week after her (they both out lived their breeds life expectancy.

When Gotcha died, I wanted another dog. I thought I found a puppy, but couldn't have a pitbull. I instead this little stripped dog kept in the section with the aggressive dogs gave our whole family "the look"....and you know the road we've been on for our perfect dog, life changing dog who just happens to be part of the one breed we couldn't have.

My point is not to let the black hole suck you in. I know from experience that hole can be obsessive. But you can take action. I know you want Leela to meet the new dog..we packed up Snuggles and Peanuts and took them with us on our multi state trip to meet the Dal I was supposed to get when we met Gotcha the first time.

I know you are like me and think shelter first, but you are the ideal adopter for some of the breed specific rescues. You have experience and knowledge. For rescues that cannot place a true working dog in an inexperienced home, an adopter like you is perfect. I suspect you could even qualify to adopt from places like Warrior Dogs and the military.

But to get what you want you may have to either look in unexpected places (like the room with all the "aggressive dogs") or be willing to travel a bit (just don't forget to get court approval if it means taking your foster child beyond state lines ;).

Re: Black Hole

Posted: Sun Oct 04, 2020 10:21 pm
by ladyjubilee
She is gorgeous.

Re: Black Hole

Posted: Mon Oct 05, 2020 10:36 pm
by Mark77
There's only so many Dutchies to hit the rescue system a year. You have to be willing to travel and be ready to go. Put your name out there for the rescues and tell them what you are looking for. Get on the waiting lists.

Re: Black Hole

Posted: Mon Oct 05, 2020 11:06 pm
by centrop67
There's another in California named Justice that looks just like Freedom.

Travel is just not a good option right now. My wife and I took a trip 200 miles to Tampa last week to celebrate our 25th wedding anniversary. A trip that was supposed to be to Las Vegas in June to renew our vows. Instead, we went to our regular annual celebration to Berns Steakhouse. Look it up. It's an amazing dining experience.

We ended up smack-dab in the middle of the Stanley Cup celebration. Totally unexpected, and I don't care what side of the political aisle you're on, I can't get Covid. I have way too many of the this will kill you prerequisites.

I am at least on the NADSR list, but I will remain patient.

Re: Black Hole

Posted: Tue Oct 06, 2020 12:55 pm
by ladyjubilee
Just dont forget that some rescues will work with you. I know most here wouldn't have issues, but Dals are to place. When I sought a Dal (Gotcha), the rescue was willing to drive across state for a meet and greet because I was experienced with breed and not just enamoured by the lovely spots.

You are that perfect adopter that rescues desperately need. You know the breed, you have lived experience with the breed, resources for help, and frankly, aren't looking for a "tough dog" to make you tougher.

My suspicion is if you reach out to some of these rescues, they'd work with you.

Re: Black Hole

Posted: Sat Oct 31, 2020 9:21 pm
by centrop67
My application is in for MAD. This is my top choice: Mustang

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Re: Black Hole

Posted: Sat Oct 31, 2020 10:43 pm
by TimL_168
Best of luck Mike

Re: Black Hole

Posted: Sat Oct 31, 2020 11:16 pm
by Mark77
Now that's a nice looking Dutchie. Perfect head on him to, line down the middle of skull, ears standing more straight up than to the side, nice mask. Notice also his ears are up when taking photos as they should which means he should prove to be a confident dog. He has a bit of Mal in him also which I can see. Get that dog.

Re: Black Hole

Posted: Sun Nov 01, 2020 4:03 am
by ladyjubilee
He is gorgeous and I think you have enough patience and experience to help him with socialization.

Re: Black Hole

Posted: Wed Nov 04, 2020 7:02 pm
by centrop67
** RESCUE UPDATE **

I am pleasantly surprised at the MAD rescue's pace of getting things done. My references have been checked including the vet reference, and it all looks positive.

Next step is for a home visit and then an interview to make sure we get the right dog.

I've noticed that the availability of volunteers for the home visit can delay the progress, but I am hopeful.

Fingers crossed.

Re: Black Hole

Posted: Wed Nov 11, 2020 5:02 am
by Mark77
Any word yet? I hope it works out. Maybe show them this forum.

Re: Black Hole

Posted: Wed Nov 11, 2020 11:11 am
by centrop67
Virtual home visit is scheduled for tomorrow. So, hopefully soon.

Re: Black Hole

Posted: Wed Nov 11, 2020 5:34 pm
by TimL_168
:wtg: :wtg: :wtg:

Re: Black Hole

Posted: Wed Nov 11, 2020 9:12 pm
by ladyjubilee
Yay!!!

Re: Black Hole

Posted: Wed Nov 11, 2020 11:48 pm
by centrop67
Facebook memories. Love em. Hate em.

This popped up today.

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Re: Black Hole

Posted: Thu Nov 12, 2020 1:36 am
by TimL_168
Yeah...I know...

Re: Black Hole

Posted: Thu Nov 12, 2020 2:24 pm
by ladyjubilee
Oh, Radar looks so hopeful in that shot.

Maybe this is a sign Mustang is getting ready to come home too.

Re: Black Hole

Posted: Thu Nov 12, 2020 2:55 pm
by centrop67
:DSangel:

Re: Black Hole

Posted: Fri Nov 13, 2020 12:34 am
by centrop67
So...

Connection issues delayed my virtual home visit today.

But...

There's positive signs. The virtual visitor is a fan of the DS Forum Facebook page and has two Dutch Shepherds herself.

We're chatting casually, and she already thinks Mustang will be a good fit for us.

I am so excited it's killing me.

Fingers crossed.

Re: Black Hole

Posted: Fri Nov 13, 2020 12:59 pm
by ladyjubilee
Wow, I am so excited for you and Mustang. I imagine the rescue is excited to have interest from some with knowledge and experience with the breed.